This entry should be post
few days ago, but because of some technical problem, it late being posted. I
wanted to talk about long distance relationship because recently two of my
friends (one is my secondary school friend – we are very close until now like
bff 4ever and another one is my uni friend – used to be close but now just another
stranger for me because of her own action ) just broke up with their
boyfriends. Both them already in relationship for a few years with their partner
before need to be apart from each other to pursue studies in another place.
They already having such understanding for each other BUT WHY just in a short
time not being beside with their partner, all the problem come up???
But I don’t want to make a
comment on their relationship, I’m just an outsider for their relationship but
it just make me wonder, does all the long distance relationship doesn’t work???
Just like Ted friends in ‘How I met your mother’ series (love it so much) which
have very negative thought about Ted will having a long distance relationship
with his girlfriend( I forgot her name :P ). Well, Ted broke up with his
girlfriend after a few weeks after his girlfriends leave the city of New
York. Does this giving a message that
long distance relationship will not works in reality??? Well, actually it is up
to you my friends…
To success in long
distance relationship, there is only two very important things, which are TRUST
and HONESTY.. Of course, you also need to keep in touch every single day with
your partner (email, skype, phone and etc..) You need to let your partner know
whatever things that happen to you even a very small details.. If one day, suddenly
you get bored and annoyed by him/her small action, that means you guys are done
and time to broke up… But don’t blame each other, it just about time problem..
Maybe he or she not the one for you…
P/S: I have a friend who
already having long distance relationship for almost three years..They always
on phone and mesagging each other.. So it’s about COMMITMENT… Long distance
relationship does work in reality but the percentage of failure was pretty high…
:D
